Tough (Question) Tuesday What do I definitely not want any more of - When I Grow Up

Tough (Question) Tuesday What do I definitely not want any more of - When I Grow Up As the New Year approaches, I cant help thinking not about resolutions, but of change. What do I want more of in my life? What do I want less of? Ive struggled my whole life with saying No, but as Ive gotten older and my goals in life have become more focused and seemingly more important to reach I know I need to cut the fat, so to say. Think of all of the commitments you have for 2009 already lined up. Some might be firm (doing a show, completing a certification course that youve signed up for), some might be soft* (waking up to get in a run before work, taking a trip to visit family). Think of them in your head, or write a list. Now ask yourself: What do I definitely not want any more of? I implore you, though: dont think. Go through that list and immediately, unhesitatingly, cross off what is whispering to you No or Should. Circle what is whispering to you Yes and Want. Those cross offs or circles are not committments to drop one thing or pick up the pace on something else just food for thought. Its up to you what you want to do with these thoughts/food. As always, Ill start the comments with my answer. Join me for the last Tough (Question) Tuesday of 2008! You can find the other installments of Tough (Question) Tuesday here. *(thats what she said)